Hypnosis, especially in Female Domination, is surrounded by myths and tends to scare off the most experienced sub. It has earned such a bad reputation that the word itself has been banned from various fetish clip websites, who prefer to avoid any argument with credit card companies, or so they say. Can hypnosis really make you do anything? Does it work on everyone? Is hypnosis that dangerous?
What is hypnosis?
Hypnosis is actually everywhere. It exists in many shapes and forms, from very simple suggestions to highly sophisticated programmations. It can be a conversational mode, or it can be a therapeutic session. At school, the best teachers you have had were natural hypnotists: they build rapport, validate a concern, rephrase and reframe, add kinaesthetic imagery, find your resources, and help you build on it. When going on a date, maybe you’ve found yourself entranced, mesmerized by your date: he or she has, deliberately or not, been building rapport with you, using kinaesthetic, maybe even sexual imagery, and rewarding (consciously or not) signs of compliance from you. Seduction is a form of hypnosis, and a very powerful one at that. Maybe you have actually been using hypnosis yourself when trying to seduce someone… Knowing how powerful these simple forms of hypnosis can be, it’s only logical to think that more advanced forms of hypnosis, such as Ericksonian hypnosis or Neuro Linguistic Programming, would allow deep transformations and intense sensations when combined with knowledge of human psychology.
Can hypnosis make me do anything?
Here’s the thing. Hypnosis only works if you want it to. Hypnosis shows you the possible paths and can help you find the mental strength to open a door for something. But in the end, it’s always your choice to follow that path or not, to go through that door or just leave it closed. Remember that friend of yours who tried hypnosis to quit smoking, and told you it didn’t work? That was because deep down, he or she never really wanted to quit in the first place. So no, hypnosis won’t turn you into a weak mindless puppet against your will. And no, you can’t be persuaded to empty your bank account if you didn’t want to do it in the first place. Which is why the ban of hypnosis on some websites is useless: not only hypnosis is everywhere in various forms, but it will never make you do anything you don’t ACTUALLY want to do. It is not hypnosis that is dangerous… It’s what YOU intend to do with it that is, how far YOU are willing to go… Provided you found an hypnotist who agreed to help you go there, and who you can trust. Femdom hypnosis is exactly like everything else in BDSM. It has to be consensual. And your domme will always make sure of the safety of anything you decide to engage in. In the end, you are the one deciding… That’s the beauty of it. The resources are in your mind already, and the hypnotist only sheds light on them.
So… Can I be an hypnotist too?
We all are hypnotists, to some extent. But to be able to use it with everyone, in any situation and for any specific concern, it takes years of daily practice and a solid knowledge of psychology. In the Femdom world, there has always been a fascination for hypnosis, but very few dominatrices have the professional training and knowledge to actually be able to use it in their sessions. Femdom hypnosis is an advanced form of hypnosis, and you can’t run before you’ve learned to walk first. When using hypnosis for specific needs, you will have to structure your session using an appropriate induction, to engage visualisation using specific words… You will have to know how to adapt to the type of personality you are working with, which is were psychology comes in handy. True hypnosis cannot be scripted, just like seduction can’t either. Just saying the “right lines” won’t get you anywhere if you don’t adapt to the client or build rapport… Which is why it is so difficult to find great femdom hypnosis videos online: the hypnotist will have to use different techniques and find ways to compensate for the lack of direct feedback or communication.
How do I know it will work on me?
You have to find an hypnotist you trust with their skills and abilities. Although the title “hypnodomme” is used by everyone and their brother, it is easy to spot a true hypnotist. Go read their websites. A true hypnotist is very unlikely to use swirl effect filters while wiggling their assets to the camera – not that there is anything wrong with it… Although you might want to get the real deal rather than paying for no results. You will easily be able to tell if they are just selling the fantasy or if they are clinically trained and experimented. I always use this image : hypnosis works like Shibari, the Japanese art of ropes. You can be a beginner, and do simple tricks, simple knots, like with erotic hypnosis, which can already make an impression if done right. Or you can be a skilled professional, and play more dangerous games… But it takes years and years of practice to master these more advanced, riskier techniques. Since you’re reading this, I’m guessing you are willing to play with fire…
Hypnosis videos seem long, boring even… Do I have to view them several times?
Not at all… In fact, you will notice that my videos are quite short compared to more classic, vanilla hypnosis files. Because in BDSM we are playing with darkest, deepest desires that would normally be worked against, it is then far easier to develop and implant concepts in less time than usually required when using hypnosis for therapeutic purpose. Noticed how quickly you can get a bad habit, and how long it takes you to get rid of it? That principle is the foundation for all my Femdom hypnosis videos… You can always view a clip you like several times, for deeper effects, but unlike with vanilla hypnosis it isn’t a necessity at all with my videos.
I have a request regarding custom hypnosis
My website is ever expanding, but in case you haven’t found the hypnosis video you are looking for yet, submit a custom clip request here, or message me for suggestions. If I believe it would benefit my clientele, I might release something that caters to your hypnotic needs… It is also possible to arrange a real time session (mostly in Paris) or a Skype session with me. This privilege is mostly reserved to my long term subs, but I might indulge your fantasy if you have a financial domination fetish…
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