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CLIP: Forever my cuckold

You are not fit to satisfy me, sexually speaking… So, I have decided to get myself lovers. Also, I think it would be safer to lock your inadequate, small dick in a cage… So that you’re not tempted to use that pathetic little worm anymore. Don’t you agree? A goddess like me deserves only the best…

 

 

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CUCKOLDING, EXPLAINED

Cuckolding, or more classically, cuckoldry, is an ever-popular sexual humiliation kink where the cuckold (or “cuck”) finds pleasure in being sexually cheated on a by a woman whom he romantically pursues or is in a relationship with – usually a wife, a girlfriend or, in our case, a mistress…. How does one form such a fetish, and what are the dynamics of the Cuckoldress/cuckold (C/c) relationship?


From candaulism…

Candaules, a king from ancient Greece kingdom of Lydia (located in nowadays Turkey), gave his name to the voyeur fetish of watching one’s female partner having sex with other men. Candaules wanted to show-off his wife Queen Nyssia’s naked body to his favorite bodyguard, Gygès, so he had him watch her get undressed from behind the door of the royal bedroom. Although there was no actual sex taking place according to the legend, Queen Nyssia ordered Gygès to either kill the king, or kill himself considering the gravity of the betrayal. The King ended up dead…

A few centuries later, candaulism becomes the name of the voyeur sexual practice of perving on one’s female partner having sex with other men. A popular thing among swingers, it is slowly but surely making its way to the vanilla (non-fetish) sex repertoire, along with other practices such as polyamory. It is to be noted that there is no obvious humiliation involved here yet, only pure voyeurism… Notable adepts of candaulism in the 20th century include Marilyn Monroe and Joe DiMaggio, as well as Salvador Dali, adept of this practice with his wife Gala, who allegedly initiated him to the kink.

 

…to cuckoldry

If candaulism is how Dali found arousal in watching Gala have sex with other men, the perversion didn’t stop there. Salvador Dali was said to be a virgin at the time he met Gala, his wife to be, who was 10 years his senior and notorious for her ever-growing list of lovers. She made him understand that he could never possibly satisfy her sexually, and since Dali was convinced of his inadequacy since his childhood during which he had compared the size of his genitalia to those of his fellow classmates, he accepted to become Gala’s cuckold. Later in their relationship, she went to the length of showering her numerous lovers with gifts and money using the income from Dali’s art…

To sum it up, the difference between candaulism and cuckoldry (cuckolding) is the humiliation factor. Cuckoldry is not a voyeuristic pleasure, but a masochistic one: the cuckold fetishist gets off on the humiliation of being “cuckolded”. One fetish always leading to many others, there are numerous other elements that can add to the humiliation. In the case of Dali, there were also notions of Small Penis Humiliation (SPH) and Financial Domination, but contemporary cuckolding can entail many other fetishes such as interracial humiliation – Big Black Cock humiliation (BBC) being one of the most popular – or chastity, or even gay encouragement. There are more cuckold types than grains of sand…

 

How did I form such a fetish?

Many of my subs have asked that question, so here is my very personal analysis on how one does become a cuckoldry fetishist.

If we followed Freudian psychoanalytic theories, it could be an Oedipus complex: the cuckold fetishist became such because he overheard or caught his mother having sex with a man (not necessarily his father) during the phallic stage of his psychosexual development, which occurs between the age of 3 to 6 years old, and during which his infantile libido is directed towards, you guessed it, his mother. Consequently, cuckolding has become a default mode for his sexuality.

Another more probable case, from what I have observed with my own clients, would be a coping mechanism: the cuckold fetishist is experiencing or has experienced infidelity in his relationship with a female significant other, or worse, a betrayal that lead to a painful breakup, and the only subterfuge that his subconscious has found to cope with the resulting trauma was to turn it into a sexual fetish, thus reclaiming control of the traumatic experience through sexual arousal.

Lastly, and this is probably one of the most common cases in my opinion, it could also be what I like to call an “escape fantasy”: the cuckold fetishist is in a happily monogamous relationship, would be considered an alpha male by the society he evolves in and could easily be a cheater himself as he has numerous attractive women gravitating towards him or even being at his beck and call, but as a result, ends up craving the exact opposite, namely, being made a cuckold by a dominant female. His sexual nemesis is the Cuckoldress…

 

The Cuckoldress/cuckold (C/c) dynamics

The most fascinating aspect of the C/c dynamics is finding the balance between seduction and rejection. This can mean a lot of Tease and Denial, not just in the context of a session, but in the context of a long-term C/c relationship. This kind of relationship can be extremely intense emotionally, which is why it is important to find a Cuckoldress that understands your weaknesses and side-fetishes as well as the multidimensionality of consent within the relationship.

Once trust is established… What’s more exciting than being the consenting victim to your Cuckoldress’ expert seduction, as she relentlessly sparks your desire only to turn the table on you so that you end up denied, humiliated or even used and abused? Cuckold subs are certainly some of my favorite to toy with…

 

So… Which cuckold are you? Apply here to become mine…

 

 

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CLIP: Breaking up with you 💘

I guess you didn’t see that one coming… Or did you? It was fun keeping your small little worm locked up in chastity, but, you know, I have sexual needs, too… These bulls I’ve had sex with while you were locked up made me aware that I truly deserved better! So, today, I’m leaving you… I know it’s Valentine’s day, so I thought I’d wear that lingerie you bought me to make it easier! I only wore it for my bulls, do you like it?

 

 

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CLIP: Last JOI Before Chastity

You’d better really enjoy every second of this one, because it will be your last… I’m putting you in chastity afterwards. Don’t worry, it will be quick…

 

 

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CLIP: Feet or chastity

I’m so generous, I leave you two options today: jerking to my feet, or be put back into chastity! Which one will it be?

 

 

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CLIP: Chastised Cuck Torment

Hey cucky. I can see you swelling in your chastity cage… How badly do you want to stroke to my divine curves, in this very tight, figure hugging, shiny dress? While I will be telling you about my exciting sex life, you will remain caged here, forced to watch me torment you. Don’t think I can make it worse? I have instructions for you… Oh and by the way… Does it help if I tell you that I am not wearing any panties under my dress?

 

 

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CLIP: Chastised Foot Cuckold

I pity you, swelling in your cage, as I tease you relentlessly with my Louboutin mesh pumps, dangling on my sexy feet… Of course, you noticed the key to your chastity cage, on a gold chain adorning my ankle. You’re locked up, forced to watch me tease you, and hear me tell you about how I intend to have sex with my next boytoy tonight…

 

 

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CLIP: Hyp-Chastity: The Only Key

Already impatient to regain your erection after viewing my traumatizing clip “Hyp-Chastity : No cage needed”? Here’s the key you’ve begged me for… Oh, just thought you’d want to know… I’ll just implant another anchor instead of the previous one. Perverse, me? Never…

 

 

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CLIP: Hyp-Chastity: No Cage Needed

This is the Chastity clip you have been searching for all your life… You can’t quite get yourself to lock that dick cage, or if you do, you always keep an extra key… This time, it will be for real. No cheating possible. As a skilled hyp-notist, I don’t even need you to use a cage, no… The cage is in your own mind already!

WARNING: A genuine, dangerous Mesmerize video, which has proved extremely efficient on my real time slaves. I use it regularly with great success. A very pleasant trap to fall in, with a rapid induction (far from those boring, long meditative clips you were used to) and strong anchors. The Hyp-Key will be released in my clip store… But don’t expect it to be cheap! USE AT YOUR OWN RISK. I will not be held responsible for the psychological and psychosomatic consequences resulting from viewing this clip. This video isn’t recommended for those with mental illness such as (but not limited to) depression.

 

 

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CLIP: Chastitease

Hello, my little bitch. Show me your devotion tonight by locking yourself up in your chastity cage for me… Come on, I’m watching! Let me help you a little bit : I’ll tease and seduce you into doing it with my Barbie pink sexy lingerie and my bendy legs… How can you resist me? Just surrender already…

 

 

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CLIP: Your dick belongs to me

Yes, it does. And so does the rest of you, by the way, but we have already established that… Well, to make it short for your tiny brain, your dick is mine, so I am the only one entitled to decide if and when you will use it. Let’s prevent any misuse of it by putting it in a chastity cage of which I will hold the key, because let’s be honest, not only your dick is particularly disgusting but you also happen to be clueless regarding how to use that piece of meat properly! You will surrender to me, as I tease you with my divine legs adorned with leopard thigh high boots and my perfect ass…

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